Comment on this... I need advice....

i love him. i love my current boyfriend miguel. miguel doesn't and can't (because he is so stubbern) give me what i want. riz can. miguel gets jelouse to the point where he hurts himself or a wall. riz gets jelouse but stays calm. riz makes me happy all the time. miguel makes me happy sometimes, but not all the time. they are both sexy and love me very much. what to do? sice i haven't seen miguel since sunday, i want to break up with him and stay with riz. but then once i see miguel, i will probably want to stay with him and not riz. T_T i dunno what to do. i would break up with miguel, but i want to stay friends with him and if i end up with someone else, he won't say anything , but he will probably do something stupid to himself. and if i break up with him, he will have nobody. i am all he has. he will go crazy... BUT I WANT TO BE ABLE TO SAY I AM RIZ'S GIRL AND NOT WORRY ABOUT ANYBODY!!! T_T please comment and tell me what to do...

 

Your going to have to try and make a decision on who you really want to be with. It would appear that you are leaning more towards Riz, as you've said before, even when your with Miguel your thinking about Riz, and i think that is really unfair as far as Miguel is concerned. However, i think Miguel is a bit unstable, and if you stay with him, its because you feel sorry for him and not because you fully love him. If Miguel is such a danger to himself then it may be worht tring to get him some help. In the end your going to have to sit down and explore your own feelings about who you want to be with.